I believe a lot christian will have the same feeling like you because we all fear and scare to trust a wrong person and they may disclose our privacy. Me too, even my close friends I can't trust because
they will disclose my privacy and discuss with her
friends, that's why I stop to talk to her. I feel not insecure and not respectful. It's very upset me!.
So, now I have no friends can trust. Very disappointed. I very understand women like to talk; me too. But at least it's not a topic to share with others that we all know. That's may be the reason people so COOL!